Always Random In CAL

So I met this guy on May 3, 2009. I remember the date because Day 26 was out here and I went to see them at a club. The guy was outside and he approached me. He was able to hold a decent conversation so I gave him my number. We starting talking and hanging out, nothing serious. Although he was cool and all, he was two years younger than me and after a few weeks of dating him, the immaturity in him started to come out.

I changed my number. LOL

One day I was bored and decided to call him just to see how he was doing. He thought that meant I wanted to start hanging out again. So I gave him the benefit of the doubt and hung out with him a couple times to catch up. He took me on a date and I had a great time. I mean I was starting to like him...AGAIN!!

When we had originally started dating, he made it clear that he didn't want anything serious because school and CAL football were his priorities and that was fine with me. So the second time around I figured he felt the same way. I wasn't looking for anything either. I wanted to keep my player status afloat (hahaha j/k). But seriously, I'm not in a place where I want a boyfriend right now. And let me make it clear lol... I AM SINGLE!!!

It had been a couple weeks since I saw this guy but we had been keeping in touch, at least talking every other day. Randomly one morning I woke up to a text message from him that said:

"I haven't seen u in a while, probably bcus ur wit sum1 else or for wateva reason...the bottom line is u r still my woman and that's not about to change. I want you to come see me."

You know, I looked at the text for a second because I was confused. I did not understand where that came from. I thought I was single but he was certain, for some ODD reason that I was his woman. Maybe in some imaginary world I was his "woman" but in MY reality I was single and I definitely didn't want him to put a ring on it (hahaha)!! That one text completely turned me off... and simply left me speechless...a true WTF moment (lol).

I told him that I thought we were just going with the flow. He says, "well this flow isn't working for me anymore".

Now if someone says that to you, isn't it safe to assume that they don't want to be involved with you anymore???

He then goes on to say, "I want you to be my girl"...OMG (confused face). He likes my swag but I'm really starting NOT to feel this guy at this point. He concluded by saying that he wants to see my beautiful face at least once a week. Can I just say...NEGATIVE!!!

I seriously have come to the conclusion that although I seem to hit it off better with younger guys, they just arent on my level. They are immature and they think I'm suddenly their "woman" just because they take me on a date. This guy seriously has the game chopped...screwed...twisted...confused...misunderstood...etc. You get my point right?!

Am I the crazy one? LOL ...or...am I someone's woman? you be the judge... A.R.I.C.